With this post ends my foray as a writer as my time in Istanbul has sadly come to an end. The whirlwind of emotions accompanying my last week in such a wonderful country ranged from heartbreak at leaving my new friends, excitement for seeing family and friends back in the States, and concern for fellow students participating in the protests against a government they feel is infringing upon their rights as a secular, democratic society.
While my apartment and school were unaffected by the actual protests, students from the university were very active in the movement, meaning that for the last few days in Istanbul large groups of students were marching down from the university to participate in the protests. Flags filled the windows of apartment buildings while the sounds of car horns and the clanking of pots and pans poured into the streets. Since coming home I have seen more and more pictures of friends and classmates in Taksim Square actively participating a movement that shows no signs of stopping and toggles between a festival-esque celebration of national identity and a battle against police brutality. In the least, the last few days in the country were an interesting and thought provoking send-off.
Although I have been fortunate enough to visit many countries with family and friends prior to Turkey, a two week stay in a hotel offers a completely different experience than the one that gained from actually living in a foreign country. Living in Istanbul allowed me to see the nuances of Turkish culture and appreciate the flow of daily life instead of just the large touristic sites. (Of course, I can't say that these sites weren't impressive.)
Here are some of the sporadic thoughts I have had about things that I will miss in Turkey.
1. The Food.
Specifically Lahmacun. Which, I am ashamed to admit, was my dinner, oh say 4 nights a week. Lahmacun is a thin tortilla-like bread with a spread of minced lamb, onion and tomato topped with fresh veggies and rolled up into a wrap. In 5 months I never tired of it's perfect taste. And, considering the fact that 2 lahmacun cost 5 TL – $2.80, I didn’t feel too bad about eating out almost every night. Also the owner at the my favorite lahmacun restaurant and I shared the special kind of bond that is created when neither of you speak the other's language, but communicate via a combination of smiles, gestures, and constant re-fills of free tea. I am honestly surprised that I have not posted a picture considering the perfection of Lahmacun likely made up about 40% of all conversation I had with friends.
Specifically Lahmacun. Which, I am ashamed to admit, was my dinner, oh say 4 nights a week. Lahmacun is a thin tortilla-like bread with a spread of minced lamb, onion and tomato topped with fresh veggies and rolled up into a wrap. In 5 months I never tired of it's perfect taste. And, considering the fact that 2 lahmacun cost 5 TL – $2.80, I didn’t feel too bad about eating out almost every night. Also the owner at the my favorite lahmacun restaurant and I shared the special kind of bond that is created when neither of you speak the other's language, but communicate via a combination of smiles, gestures, and constant re-fills of free tea. I am honestly surprised that I have not posted a picture considering the perfection of Lahmacun likely made up about 40% of all conversation I had with friends.
Also I learned that there is something to say about eating seasonal produce. Right before I left it was cherry, greengage (a small green tart fruit in the plum family), and apricot season. I can honestly say I have never had more delicious cherries. I think I frequented the grocery store/man on the side of the road selling cherries out of the back of his truck once a day for about two weeks. I was cherry obsessed.
I was lucky enough to meet and become friends with some absolutely incredible people.
3. The Beauty of the Bosphorous.
I know that almost all the major European cities have a river running through them, but I honestly doubt that any of them are as beautiful as the Bosphorous. First of all it is not a river, but a straight connecting the Black Sea to the Mediterranean. Secondly, it is not the least bit brown or murky (as I have experienced many of the European rivers to be), but a piercing blue that captures your eye and makes you forget that you are living amongst 18 million people. Now, pictures cannot do justice to the magnificence of the view, but as a refresher...
4. The Cost of Living.
So I have been back in the US for a grand total of ten days and I have noticed something – stuff here is expensive! Almost everyone who I have talked to about studying abroad has asked why I decided to go to Turkey. And, while my answer was typically “they had good engineering and it was an English speaking university,” retrospectively a component of my decision should have been the cost! No euro = more for your buck. After talking to many of my friends who studied abroad in Western Europe or London (gasp! The pound!), I didn’t realize I was spending significantly less.
5. Gripping over a fun, frustrating, and interesting living situation.
The saga of Apartment 3 deserves a blog post of its own, however, a quick summary of the main events will have to do. In the span of 5 months, Steven, Joe, and I had 6 different tenants in the fourth bedroom, waged a silent battle of the heating system in which the temperature options were “see your breath cold” and “only a sweat shirt is needed cold,” endured a sporadic lack of Internet as a result of mooching off the Internet downstairs and not having our own, avoided a perpetually dirty kitchen due to people thinking that it is fine to not wash dishes for weeks on end, and dealt with an obscene amount of hair in the bath tub as a result of a very inefficient drain. Oh and fought the mold that covered the ceiling of Stephen's room in a matter of days with no apparent cause. Thank god for industrial bleach... and the fact that it was in Stephen's room and not mine. Fortunately, despite these minor annoyances, my apartment living situation worked out quite well. Big bed room, close to campus, congregation spot for many of my friends who lived in the dorm and were not allowed to have visitors. But, lesson learned, sign a lease with specific terms and conditions.
View from the Balcony |
6. Big city living.
While an obvious downside of living in a city as big is Istanbul is the intense, infuriating amount of traffic, I learned that living in a big city has its benefits. I previously held the viewpoint that I could never live in a city like New York. I thought too big, too impersonal, and too traffic-ey(sp?). Well after living in a city that is over twice the size of New York with a far less extensive metro system, my ideas about city living have changed significantly. Being able to pick up food at the grocery on the 5 minute walk home, exploring a new neighborhood every weekend because there are so many to explore, and meeting up with friends who live one street over instead of a 15 minute drive down the parkway isn't half bad.
I have so much love for Turkey, the people that I met, the memories that I will cherish, and of course the wonderful friends and family here is the US to whom I have returned. 5 months in Turkey flew by.
Teşekkürler Türkiye!
Below are just some additional pictures because I figure pictures are more fun to look at.